Monday, November 15, 2010

the friday night knitting club by kate jacobs



earlier was alittle bit slow, but starting middle part of the book it got more interesting. so cool to have the knitting supply shops. all the beautiful colors......

Georgia and Dakota. Mother and daughter relationship. Georgia raising her daughter coz her boyfriend had left her when she was pregnant. typical. but than she has managed to do what all mothers would do.raised her daughter with all her heart plus she has managed to own a knit shop. how cool.

among others...grans wisdom thoughts...'sometimes people just dont get things right...peaople sometimes dont do the right thing...then you're left deciding how you are going to react to what they offer. Because you can't make them change.




Wednesday, October 13, 2010

hajj 1431

erwan, azmah n auntie

 they've left for hajj this year. Alhamdulillah. Kesempatan menerima jemputan Allah SWT. Insya Allah moga mendapat haji mabrur.

Some tips she had for me to prepare for hajj.
  1. buka account di tabung haji. minimum RM 1300 and register terus. has to save at least rm 10k
  2. kita boleh dump extra money if available and must do SI as to we wont forget about the savings.
  3. sertai kursus at least 2 yrs before so that we would be well prepared. ( even though we have not yet register... still can join in the courses for merely rm 80.00 weekly 2 times. can start asking TH from february.
  4. can get from private agent for any particular or specific needs. prepare about rm 20k above... or go under Tabung Haji.

hopefully they'll have fun and able to perform their hajj to the best. and hope to see you soon... another 46 days....selamat pergi dan pulang. I love you.
* aku menunggu jemputan dariNya


Tuesday, August 10, 2010

tv3 'jejak rasul' - kisah -kisah srikandi

pic credit to mstar online 

Sangat mengujakan. I can't wait for the first episode 6 pm today. Hosted by the wonderful Ezzah Aziz Fawzy, and also Mohd Sidek Majin dan Mohd Fasli Mohd Idris.

Todays' 1st episode is on the greatest Saiditina Siti Khadijah Khuwaili, isteri Rasulullah SAW mendaki gua Hira'. Subhanallah! Semoga kita mendapat petunjuk dan bimbingan dari-Nya.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

malam ini bersama by Dato' Dr. Fadhilah Kamsah

 Topik: Bagaimana menambah kasih sayang suami isteri.

1. cari perbezaan dan persamaan

2. buat apa yang disukai dan tinggalkan yang tidak disukai

3. pasangan kawan yang paling akrab
4. puji-pujian kepada pasangan. boleh memanjangkan umur.
5. peka, sebut sayang banyak2
6. lakukan kerja bersama
7. fahami magis sentuhan
8.doakan selalu

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

21 Things You Should Never Buy New

1. DVDs and CDs: Used DVDs and CDs will play like new if they were well taken care of. Even if you wind up with a scratched disc and you don't want to bother with a return, there are ways to remove the scratches and make the DVD or CD playable again.

2. Books: You can buy used books at significant discounts from online sellers and brick-and-mortar used book stores. The condition of the books may vary, but they usually range from good to like-new. And of course, check out your local library for free reading material.

3. Video Games: Kids get tired of video games rather quickly. You can easily find used video games from online sellers at sites like Amazon and eBay a few months after the release date. Most video game store outlets will feature a used game shelf, as well. And if you're not the patient type, you can rent or borrow from a friend first to see if it's worth the purchase.

4. Special Occasion and Holiday Clothing: Sometimes you'll need to buy formal clothing for special occasions, such as weddings or prom. Most people will take good care of formal clothing but will only wear it once or twice. Their closet castouts are your savings: Thrift stores, yard sales, online sellers and even some dress shops offer fantastic buys on used formalwear.

5. Jewelry: Depreciation hits hard when you try to sell used jewelry, but as a buyer you can take advantage of the markdown to save a bundle. This is especially true for diamonds, which has ridiculously low resale value. Check out estate sales and reputable pawn shops to find great deals on unique pieces. Even if you decide to resell the jewelry later, the depreciation won't hurt as much.

6. Ikea Furniture: Why bother assembling your own when you can pick it up for free (or nearly free) on Craigslist and Freecycle? Summer is the best time to hunt for Ikea furniture--that's when college students are changing apartments and tossing out their goodies.

7. Games and Toys: How long do games and toys remain your child's favorite before they're left forgotten under the bed or in the closet? You can find used children's toys in great condition at moving sales or on Craigslist, or you can ask your neighbors, friends, and family to trade used toys. Just make sure to give them a good wash before letting junior play.

8. Maternity and Baby Clothes: Compared to everyday outfits that you can wear any time, maternity clothes don't get much wear outside the few months of pregnancy when they fit. The same goes for baby clothes that are quickly outgrown. You'll save a small fortune by purchasing gently used maternity clothes and baby clothes at yard sales and thrift stores. Like children's games and toys, friends and family may have baby or maternity clothing that they'll be happy to let you take off their hands.


9. Musical Instruments: Purchasing new musical instruments for a beginner musician is rarely a good idea. For your little dear who wants to learn to play an instrument, you should see how long his or her interest lasts by acquiring a rented or used instrument to practice with first. Unless you're a professional musician or your junior prodigy is seriously committed to music, a brand new instrument may not be the best investment.

10. Pets: If you buy a puppy (or kitty) from a professional breeder or a pet store outlet, it can set you back anywhere from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. On top of this, you'll need to anticipate additional fees and vet bills, too. Instead, adopt a pre-owned pet from your local animal shelter and get a new family member, fees, and vaccines at a substantially lower cost.

11. Home Accent: Pieces Home decorating pieces and artwork are rarely handled on a day-to-day basis, so they're generally still in good condition even after being resold multiple times. If you like the worn-out look of some decor pieces, you can be sure you didn't pay extra for something that comes naturally with time. And don't forget, for most of us, discovering a true gem at a garage sale is 90% of the fun!

12. Craft Supplies: If you're into crafting, you probably have a variety of different supplies left over from prior projects. If you require some additional supplies for your upcoming project, then you can join a craft swap where you'll find other crafty people to trade supplies with. If you have leftovers, be sure to donate them to your local schools.

13. Houses: You're typically able to get better and more features for your dollar when you purchase an older home rather than building new. Older houses were often constructed on bigger corner lots, and you also get architectural variety in your neighborhood if the houses were built or remodeled in different eras.

14. Office Furniture: Good office furniture is built to withstand heavy use and handling. Really solid pieces will last a lifetime, long after they're resold the first or second time. A great used desk or file cabinet will work as well as (or better than) a new one, but for a fraction of the cost. With the recession shutting down so many businesses, you can easily find lots of great office furniture deals.

15. Cars: You've probably heard this before: Cars depreciate the second you drive them off of the dealership's lot. In buying a used car, you save money on both the initial cost and the insurance. It also helps to know a trusty mechanic who can check it over first. This way, you'll be aware of any potential problems before you make the purchase.


16. Hand Tools: Simple tools with few moving parts, like hammers, hoes and wrenches, will keep for decades so long as they are well-made to begin with and are well-maintained. These are fairly easy to find at neighborhood yard or garage sales. If you don't need to use hand tools very often, an even better deal is to rent a set of tools or borrow them from a friend.

17. Sports Equipment: Most people buy sports equipment planning to use it until it drops, but this rarely happens. So when sports equipment ends up on the resale market, they tend to still be in excellent condition. Look into buying used sporting gear through Craigslist and at yard sales or sports equipment stores.

18. Consumer Electronics: I know most folks like shiny new toys, but refurbished electronic goods are a much sweeter deal. Consumer electronics are returned to the manufacturer for different reasons, but generally, they'll be inspected for damaged parts, fixed, tested, then resold at a lower price. Just make sure you get a good warranty along with your purchase.

19. Gardening Supplies: This is an easy way for you to save money, and all you need to do is be observant. Take a look outdoors and you'll likely find such gardening supplies as mulch, wood, and even stones for free or vastly reduced prices. Used garden equipment and tools are also common goods at yard sales.

20. Timeshares: Buying timeshares isn't for everyone, but if you decide that it suits your lifestyle, purchasing the property as a resale would be a better deal than buying it brand new: on average, you'll save 67 percent on the price for a comparable new timeshare. If you're new to timeshare ownership, give it a test run first by renting short term.

21. Recreational Items: It's fairly easy to find high ticket recreational items like campers, boats, and jet skis being resold. Oftentimes, they're barely used at all. As long as they're in safe, working condition, they'll make for a better value when purchased used than new.

Lynn Truong is the co-founder and Deals Editor of Wise Bread, a blog dedicated to helping readers live large on a small budget. Wise Bread's book, 10,001 Ways to live Large on a Small Budget, debuted as the #1 Money Management book on Amazon.com.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

kewangan

excerpt from the finance advisor, Hajah Rohani Datuk Hj Mohd Shahir books' Ke mana wang anda?

Merancang Kewangan Dalam Fasa Kehidupan

Fasa 1 - Awal 20an - awal 30an
titik permulaan
  • beli kereta
  • beli rumah
  • gaya pemakaian pekerjaan
  • bayar hutang pendidikan
  • beri wang ihsan ibu bapa
  • sumbangan ahli keluarga yang memerlukan
jangan mula libatkan diri dengan hutang kad kredit. pelaburan berisiko seperti saham amanah bentuk ekuiti dan pembelian polisi takaful tabungan

Fasa 2 - Awal 30an- 40an
  • penyusunan semula hutang 
  • upgrade kereta
  • ubahsuai rumah / beli rumah baru
  • melancong/ haji /umrah
melabur masih boleh dengan risiko seperti pembelian saham amanah yang berbentuk 'balanced' atau portfolio mengandungi 50% bon dan 50% saham. Beli tanah atau hartanah. dan polisi takaful yang melindungi kesihatan (CI) atau tabungan pendidikan anak2.

there are also guideline for 40's onwards. and advises on managing expenses, investment for children, debt free, increasing income and preparing for the future.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

workaholic.

 

Am I a workaholic. The mags cut out a description of a workaholic. Well I am similar to more than 5 of the description . Haha.. has always been and will always be. 
Eventhough I would try at times to not be one but I have to accept the fact that its just meant to be. Let me share with you the description and please do asses yourself. :)

  1. i prefer to do most things myself rather than ask for help.
  2. i get impatient when i have to wait for someone else or when something takes too long
  3. i find myself doing two or three things at one time, such as eating lunch and writing a memo while talking on the telephone
  4. i feel guilty when i am not working on something
  5. things just never seem to move fast enough for me
  6. my personal life has suffered because of my work
  7. i spend a lot of time mentally planning and thinking about future events while tuning out the here and now
If you answer true to four or more questions, then its time you reevaluate your work values and find that balance in life again!

Sometimes, bukan saje nak jadi workaholic tapi 'ter'jadi tanpa disengajakan.


Monday, May 17, 2010

so much so good


terkesan....one of the topic on 'solat tahajud' 
pg: 27
kesan perubatan solat; 
sujud, mengalirkan oksigen, menguatkan daya fikir, memudahkan proses bersalin dan meningkatkan kesuburan
gerakan menonggeng dengan meletakkan kedua-dua belah tangan, lutut, hujung kaki dan dahi di atas lantai. 

manfaat: aliran limfa dipamkan ke bahagian leher dan ketiak. kedudukan jantung di atas otak menyebabkan darah yang kaya dengan oksigen mengalir dengan maksimum ke otak. pengaliran ini memberi pengaruh kepada daya fikiran kita. oleh itu lakukan sujud dengan tamakninah, jangan tergesa-gesa supaya darah mengalir sebanyak mungkin ke dalam otak. gerakan ini juga menghindar penyakit buasir. khusus bagi wanita, gerakan rukuk dan juga sujud mempunyai manfaat luar biasa bagi kesuburan dan kesihatan organ kewanitaan.

sujud adalah latihan kekuatan bagi otot tertentu, termasuk otot dada. semasa sujud, beban tubuh bahagian atas ditumpukan pada lengan hingga tapak tangan. pada masa inilah pengecutan terjadi pada otot dada, bahagian tubuh yang jadi kebanggaan setiap wanita. payudara bukan hanya menjadi lebih menarik, tetapi juga memperbaiki fungsi kelenjar air susu di dalamnya.

semasa pinggul dan pinggang diangkat melampui kepala dan dada, otot-otot perut mengecut sepenuhnya. gerakan ini melatih organ di sekitar perut bagi meneran dengan lebih dalam dan lama. ini memberi manfaat kepada wanita kerana dalam proses bersalin, memerlukan pernafasan yang baik.

it has other explanation on other parts of our solat and all the wonderful benefit gained.
Blog Widget by LinkWithin