s.h. alattas & dr. azizan

i posted on this here also.

this is one heavy duty input i gathered and reading it has gotten me into a very serious thinking mode.

i think it is very important to have a very direct and bold writer to make out some big realization into our life.

my first book of this controversial writer pak habib, and the very successful dr. azizan, the new leading marketing tycoon.

dr. azizan for me has built his own empire and has made a huge branding impact in marketing himself as what he has introduces to the mainstream of the concept to be successful with principles and strategies and to have a mentor, a business opportunities he created to sell his skill and the services he provided.

i think his brilliant and true to himself and the fact that he has a story to share with others are something worth our time.

i havent yet got the opportunity to follow on his other programme just the SKPD 2011 held earlier this year. i do hope that i could have an opportunity to learn from the sifu on realizing my fullest potential.

just to share bits and pieces of the book;

" you see things and sa'why?' but i dream of things and say 'why no?"

                                                         - george bernard shaw

yang pertama untuk mencapai sesuatu kita perlu ada matlamat yang jelas.

yang kedua, untuk mencapai matlamat kita perlu ada keinginan yang tinggi

dan yang ketiga, untuk mecapai keinginan yang tinggi, kita perlu kuasa bertindak yang luar biasa

" orang-orang berilmu dan orang yang menuntut ilmu bersyarikat dengan kebajikan. Selebihnya adalah manusia-manusia bodoh yang padanya tak ada kebajikan"

orang alim (pengajar) dan orang yang belajar (murid) sama-sama mendapat ganjaran, kerana sesungguhnya, manusia terdiri atas dua golongan iaitu pengajar dan pelajar, selebihnya tidak berfaedah"

                                                                                -abu darda' ra

i challenge you to make your life a masterpiece. i challenge you to join the ranks of those people who live what they teach, who walk their talk.

                                                                              - tony robbins

kerisauan perlu hadir dalam diri dengan seribu macam persoalan mengenai masa depan kita apabila bertemu dengan Maha Pencipta. Apakah sudah cukup amalan kita? Apakah sudah tertebus dosa kita? Apakah layak kita menjadi penghuni syurga? Apakah mampu kita menahan malu di padang Mahsyar apabila segala keburukan kita dipamerkan secara terperinci oleh Tuhan pada wajah kita? Pada perbuatan dan tingkah laku kita akibat kita buta kita tak tahu apa-apa?

sesuatu amalan yang dilakukan dengan penuh keikhlasan adalah dikategorikan sebagai ibadah. Berniaga adalah ibadah yang bertaraf fardhu ain, wajib bagi orang Islam meskipun tidak mempunyai perintah secara langsung dalam al- Quran dan hadis.

Belia perlu didekatkan kepada kefahaman hakikat hidup yang sebenar mengikut al-Quran dan sunnah Rasulullah SAW. Mereka perlu tahu sejarah Islam bahawa para sahabat Nabi Muhammad SAW berniaga. Nabi SAW berniaga. Khadijah isterinya kaya raya dan saudagar besar.

Islam telah mengharamkan sifat takabur dari penghinaan diri dan sebaliknya mewajibkan seorang Muslim menghargai kehormatan dirinya. Sifat takabbur itu ialah satu-satunya sifat Tuhan tidak layak bagi manusia mana sekalipun menyaingi Tuhan dalam sifat yang mutlak baginya.

" kegagalan bukan bermakna anda seorang yang bodoh mencuba. ia bermakna anda mempunyai keberanian untuk melihat apa yang tidak boleh dilakukan"

                                                                                   - billi lim

otak melayu jika dibandingkan dengan jepun, korea, german, yahudi, otak melayu paling mahal kerana otak melayu masih belum menggunakan otaknya seperti bangsa lain.

ada tiga perkara yang tidak akan memutuskan kita dengan akhirat, meninggalkan ilmu yang bermanfaat, melakukan amal jariah dengan menanam pokok, jika buahnya kita tak makan akan dimakan oleh orang lain, jika tidak burung hinggap kita akan mendapat pahala dan meninggalkan seorang anak yang baik, anak yang sentiasa mendoakan kedua ibubapa dan berjasa kepada agama dan bangsa. semoga anda yang mahu berfikir akan mendapat manfaat dari apa yang anda baca.

"if you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you'll achieve the same results.

-tony robbins

seawal usia 25 tahun, syed mokhtar al-bukhary yang dikenali ramai sebagai tokoh korporat dan dermawan menyumbang separuh daripada gaji rm 1500 yang diterima kepada 15 keluarga miskin, manakala bakinya digunakan untuk membiayai persekolahan adiknya.

sebelum seorang hamba itu  melangkah kakinya di hari kiamat terlebih dahulu dia akan disoal tentang empat perkara: ' umurnya, bagaimana cara ia menghabiskannya? keremajaannya, untuk apa dia melunturkannya? hartanya, dari mana ia perolehi? dan untuk apa ia belanjakannya? dan ilmunya, apa amalan yang telah ia lakukan dengannya"

hadis riwayat Tirmizi menyebut bahawasanya Rasulullah SAW bersabda: " tidak ada yang dapat mengubah takdir selain doa, dan tidak ada yang dapat memanjangkan umur melainkan memperbanyakkan amal kebajikan"

dan

" wahai saad makanlah makanan yang baik (lagi halal) tentu engkau menjadi orang yang makbul doanya. Sesungguhnya seorang  yang pernah memasukkan sesuap makanan yang haram ke dalam perutnya, maka tidak akan dikabulkan doanya selama 40 hari. sesiapa yang dagingnya tumbuh dari makanan yang haram maka neraka tempat layak untuknya"

riwayat Thabarani menjelaskan bahawa Rasulullah SAW pernah memberi padangan kepada seorang sahabat, saad abi waqas yang makamnya di guan dzou, china

note: this is all excerpt from the book rahsia menjadi kaya dan berjaya dunia dan akhirat



malam ini bersama by Dato' Dr. Fadhilah Kamsah

 Topik: Bagaimana menambah kasih sayang suami isteri.

1. cari perbezaan dan persamaan

2. buat apa yang disukai dan tinggalkan yang tidak disukai

3. pasangan kawan yang paling akrab
4. puji-pujian kepada pasangan. boleh memanjangkan umur.
5. peka, sebut sayang banyak2
6. lakukan kerja bersama
7. fahami magis sentuhan
8.doakan selalu

21 Things You Should Never Buy New

1. DVDs and CDs: Used DVDs and CDs will play like new if they were well taken care of. Even if you wind up with a scratched disc and you don't want to bother with a return, there are ways to remove the scratches and make the DVD or CD playable again.

2. Books: You can buy used books at significant discounts from online sellers and brick-and-mortar used book stores. The condition of the books may vary, but they usually range from good to like-new. And of course, check out your local library for free reading material.

3. Video Games: Kids get tired of video games rather quickly. You can easily find used video games from online sellers at sites like Amazon and eBay a few months after the release date. Most video game store outlets will feature a used game shelf, as well. And if you're not the patient type, you can rent or borrow from a friend first to see if it's worth the purchase.

4. Special Occasion and Holiday Clothing: Sometimes you'll need to buy formal clothing for special occasions, such as weddings or prom. Most people will take good care of formal clothing but will only wear it once or twice. Their closet castouts are your savings: Thrift stores, yard sales, online sellers and even some dress shops offer fantastic buys on used formalwear.

5. Jewelry: Depreciation hits hard when you try to sell used jewelry, but as a buyer you can take advantage of the markdown to save a bundle. This is especially true for diamonds, which has ridiculously low resale value. Check out estate sales and reputable pawn shops to find great deals on unique pieces. Even if you decide to resell the jewelry later, the depreciation won't hurt as much.

6. Ikea Furniture: Why bother assembling your own when you can pick it up for free (or nearly free) on Craigslist and Freecycle? Summer is the best time to hunt for Ikea furniture--that's when college students are changing apartments and tossing out their goodies.

7. Games and Toys: How long do games and toys remain your child's favorite before they're left forgotten under the bed or in the closet? You can find used children's toys in great condition at moving sales or on Craigslist, or you can ask your neighbors, friends, and family to trade used toys. Just make sure to give them a good wash before letting junior play.

8. Maternity and Baby Clothes: Compared to everyday outfits that you can wear any time, maternity clothes don't get much wear outside the few months of pregnancy when they fit. The same goes for baby clothes that are quickly outgrown. You'll save a small fortune by purchasing gently used maternity clothes and baby clothes at yard sales and thrift stores. Like children's games and toys, friends and family may have baby or maternity clothing that they'll be happy to let you take off their hands.


9. Musical Instruments: Purchasing new musical instruments for a beginner musician is rarely a good idea. For your little dear who wants to learn to play an instrument, you should see how long his or her interest lasts by acquiring a rented or used instrument to practice with first. Unless you're a professional musician or your junior prodigy is seriously committed to music, a brand new instrument may not be the best investment.

10. Pets: If you buy a puppy (or kitty) from a professional breeder or a pet store outlet, it can set you back anywhere from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. On top of this, you'll need to anticipate additional fees and vet bills, too. Instead, adopt a pre-owned pet from your local animal shelter and get a new family member, fees, and vaccines at a substantially lower cost.

11. Home Accent: Pieces Home decorating pieces and artwork are rarely handled on a day-to-day basis, so they're generally still in good condition even after being resold multiple times. If you like the worn-out look of some decor pieces, you can be sure you didn't pay extra for something that comes naturally with time. And don't forget, for most of us, discovering a true gem at a garage sale is 90% of the fun!

12. Craft Supplies: If you're into crafting, you probably have a variety of different supplies left over from prior projects. If you require some additional supplies for your upcoming project, then you can join a craft swap where you'll find other crafty people to trade supplies with. If you have leftovers, be sure to donate them to your local schools.

13. Houses: You're typically able to get better and more features for your dollar when you purchase an older home rather than building new. Older houses were often constructed on bigger corner lots, and you also get architectural variety in your neighborhood if the houses were built or remodeled in different eras.

14. Office Furniture: Good office furniture is built to withstand heavy use and handling. Really solid pieces will last a lifetime, long after they're resold the first or second time. A great used desk or file cabinet will work as well as (or better than) a new one, but for a fraction of the cost. With the recession shutting down so many businesses, you can easily find lots of great office furniture deals.

15. Cars: You've probably heard this before: Cars depreciate the second you drive them off of the dealership's lot. In buying a used car, you save money on both the initial cost and the insurance. It also helps to know a trusty mechanic who can check it over first. This way, you'll be aware of any potential problems before you make the purchase.


16. Hand Tools: Simple tools with few moving parts, like hammers, hoes and wrenches, will keep for decades so long as they are well-made to begin with and are well-maintained. These are fairly easy to find at neighborhood yard or garage sales. If you don't need to use hand tools very often, an even better deal is to rent a set of tools or borrow them from a friend.

17. Sports Equipment: Most people buy sports equipment planning to use it until it drops, but this rarely happens. So when sports equipment ends up on the resale market, they tend to still be in excellent condition. Look into buying used sporting gear through Craigslist and at yard sales or sports equipment stores.

18. Consumer Electronics: I know most folks like shiny new toys, but refurbished electronic goods are a much sweeter deal. Consumer electronics are returned to the manufacturer for different reasons, but generally, they'll be inspected for damaged parts, fixed, tested, then resold at a lower price. Just make sure you get a good warranty along with your purchase.

19. Gardening Supplies: This is an easy way for you to save money, and all you need to do is be observant. Take a look outdoors and you'll likely find such gardening supplies as mulch, wood, and even stones for free or vastly reduced prices. Used garden equipment and tools are also common goods at yard sales.

20. Timeshares: Buying timeshares isn't for everyone, but if you decide that it suits your lifestyle, purchasing the property as a resale would be a better deal than buying it brand new: on average, you'll save 67 percent on the price for a comparable new timeshare. If you're new to timeshare ownership, give it a test run first by renting short term.

21. Recreational Items: It's fairly easy to find high ticket recreational items like campers, boats, and jet skis being resold. Oftentimes, they're barely used at all. As long as they're in safe, working condition, they'll make for a better value when purchased used than new.

Lynn Truong is the co-founder and Deals Editor of Wise Bread, a blog dedicated to helping readers live large on a small budget. Wise Bread's book, 10,001 Ways to live Large on a Small Budget, debuted as the #1 Money Management book on Amazon.com.

workaholic.

 

Am I a workaholic. The mags cut out a description of a workaholic. Well I am similar to more than 5 of the description . Haha.. has always been and will always be. 

Eventhough I would try at times to not be one but I have to accept the fact that its just meant to be. Let me share with you the description and please do asses yourself. :)

1. i prefer to do most things myself rather than ask for help.
2. i get impatient when i have to wait for someone else or when something takes too long
3. i find myself doing two or three things at one time, such as eating lunch and writing a memo while talking on the telephone
4. i feel guilty when i am not working on something
5. things just never seem to move fast enough for me
6. my personal life has suffered because of my work
7. i spend a lot of time mentally planning and thinking about future events while tuning out the here and now

If you answer true to four or more questions, then its time you reevaluate your work values and find that balance in life again!

Sometimes, bukan saje nak jadi workaholic tapi 'ter'jadi tanpa disengajakan.

rudy ruettiger....against all odds

rudy, a dyslexic. 3 rejections before accepted to the Univercity of Notre Dame. He played football as his ideal game and succeeded at attaining his goal despite all hindrances which made him even more popular. his achievements and determination has made him a good motivational speaker.



he is also the founder of rudy foundation, whose mission is to help children of all ages around the world reach their full potential. and his website www.rudyint.com has and inspirational messages column. http://www.rudyint.com/inspirational.cfm

'Everyone told me, I couldn't do it, but in the end, I reached that goal'

" I got tired of the noise of everyone telling me why I couldn't and why I shouldn't and why I wouldn't. I felt like I was living in a box labeled " this is where you belong". Well that's a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you hear it enough you start believing it.

I know that if I don't change my friends or my circumstances soon, I'd ended up somewhere I didn't want to be,

pg 77. I'm going to control this deal by volunteering instead of having someone else tell me what to do. I saw that by taking control of things, you get better options.

It was a book called Psycho-Cybernatics by Maxwell Maltz that has caught rudy by surprise on what a mind is capable of doing.

psycho-cybernetics

' one message stood out for me . You are in control of your destiny. Your mind is very powerful, what you think is your reality. Just because something is a struggle doesn't mean you can't do it. it just means you've got to find a different way of doing it.

pg 78: " I'm going to do this, period, end of sentence," and new opportunities created just by my showing up. I went without a game plan. Maltz said if you take action, the plan will unfold in front of you. You can develop your game plan as you move toward your goal.

Sometimes it's better not to have everything laid out. Focusing too much on how you think it should happen/go can cause you to miss opportunities. Everyone of us uses our mind to create our life. Willing to swim against the streams, fight against the odds and believe you can be whatever you want to be.

on life

i'm in the midst of reading this book. a compilation of 55 notable people whose are successful in their own field to contribute their own personal stories of books that has changed their lives.

what's interesting is also that it could be our guide for insight or for the next great book we would want to read.