i came across her when i read the you've got to read this book. who is chellie? a former bookkeeper & musical comedy actress whom has created the popular financial stress reduction workshop. it teaches you on managing your financial .
but the most interesting thing here is, chellie coach the coaches to teach on her principles. it is disseminated around the US without the need of her to be there. that's pretty cool.
- Are you someone that others always call for good advice?
- Do you enjoy meeting new people and making new friends?
- Do you enjoy teaching, counseling, training, speaking, or coaching?
- Would you like to work for yourself doing work you love, making a great income, and helping others do the same?
as for chellie, she had gain something valuables in her life after she read this book.
'i couldn't believe what i was reading. page after page gave me explicit instructions on how to please myself before pleasing others. it said that i had the right to choose my own happiness first. that i could say no. and more importantly, that i had the right not to explain why i was saying no.'
this was all due to her boss than, whom was less than sensitive enough to care for the employee, very self absorbed and doesn't know how to behave, speak more than to acknowledge his subordinates. Mentally re***ded i would say. very familiar.
she read the book and the next time her boss yell at her, she was able to yell at him back. he never yelled at her again.
'Smiths' book said not to give your reasons for saying no, or the conversations would degenerate into an argument over the validity of your reasons. i just said no.'
so people learn to say NO
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